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Her OVI arrest turned into a friendship with the Ohio state trooper who pulled her over

And a commitment to recovering from alcoholism
Posted at 8:14 PM, Nov 06, 2019
and last updated 2019-11-06 21:30:23-05

CINCINNATI — Kimberly Slavens never expected to find herself hugging the man who arrested her. The first time she met Ohio State Highway Patrol Trooper Brett Lee was “not good,” she said.

“Not good at all.”

It was 2015. She was — not unusually for her, then — drunk. It had become a habit at some point, riding a steady stream of vodka tonics straight to what she described as “obliteration” each night and waking up in time for work each morning.

“I was very high-functioning,” she said of her alcoholism. “Went to work every day, never called in sick.”

She napped at the bar before attempting to drive home, reasoning that the five-hour gap between her last drink and her departure would leave her sober enough to make the journey safely.

It didn’t. Flashing lights appeared in her rearview mirror on the way home, and Lee pulled her over. His field sobriety test returned a blood alcohol content of .10 — higher than the .08 limit in the state of Ohio. He arrested her, and Slavens had to call her mother for a ride home.

“She was not happy to come get me,” she said. “She asked me, ‘You know, I just asked you if you’d been drinking.’ And I’m like, ‘I know, mom. I lied. I have a problem.’ That’s the first time I admitted it. That was the moment. That’s it.”

That admission — one that might never have happened without Lee’s intervention — became the first step in addressing the addiction that had begun to consume her. Slavens checked herself into rehabilitation and got sober. And a year after the arrest, Lee found a handwritten note from Slavens at his post.

“It says ‘’Thank you’ all over the front,” he recalled. “Now I’m like, ‘Who is this from?’ So I started reading.”

Slavens had written, in part: Had you not arrested me that night, I would have continued on the path I was on and more than likely not be here today.

Lee had never received a message like it.

“When I was reading it, it touched my heart,” he said. “It really did.”

He and Slavens consider themselves friends these days, and she’s continued to send him thank-you cards on each of her sober anniversaries. Once, while struggling with her decision to stay sober, she stopped by his post to see him — and although he wasn’t around, dispatchers got him on FaceTime to offer her words of encouragement.

Slaves considers herself living proof that recovery is possible. Lee considers her story proof that he can make a positive difference, even in unexpected ways.

“Next month, on Dec. 5, I’ll be waiting at the post for her to arrive,” he said.